NOTE: The woods, the bookstore and library shelves, and the internet are all full of materials on dreams and dream work. I haven't found the tips which follow in any of them, or, if they are there, they're not quite stated the same way. I hope someone finds them helpful.
But the reverse side of this is important to recognize too: No one need feel compelled to explore every image in every dream. For example, most (or maybe all) dreams contain some sexual or erotic content. You do not have to deal with this if you don't want to. Or better stated, there is no good reason to have a rule (even a private rule for yourself) saying that this stuff has to be explored; at least until you are good and ready (which might be now, or tomorrow, or in twenty years). There's plenty of other meat in the dream to make working on it rewarding. (I just chose sexual and erotic stuff because it's common in our society to be uncomfortable with that, but, for another example, if you find a dream which raises health issues, or deals with other material you find too painful or too sensitive to face head-on just now, it's perfectly fine to work on the rest of it.)
Another situation which arises when you're sharing a dream, might be where you're uncomfortable letting everyone know that you dreamt of a romantic encounter with, say, George. Fine. Change George's name. In other words, don't feel compelled to do dreamwork by rules; even rules of conventional "honesty."
- Keep your sharing with others anonymous.
In other words, if you and I are sharing dreams, I may talk to others about the dream you shared with me ONLY if I am careful not to reveal whose dream it was. It is very bad form for me to run off and tell your dream to anyone who could possibly figure out that it was your dream. (We're back to that trust thing.)
Only the dreamer can know what meanings a dream may have!
Nothing kills the spirit of shared dreamwork as promptly and as thoroughly as smugness.
Preface any comments made about another's dream with words to the effect that, "If it were my dream...," and keep this commentary in the first person as much as possible.
I can't stress this enough. This, in my experience, is the sine qua non for doing dreamwork with others!!!
My personal introduction to DreamWork
Jeremy Taylor's Basic Dream Work Toolkit
Jeremy Taylor Myth and Dreamwork Home Page