Changes to Look for When your child is getting
better
(it could happen to you!)
Responses vary from child to child but typically what we see is that
the
child will become either calmer or more alert depending on if s/he is
either
over or under reactive. The
child will appear more focused and more purposeful
in his or her behavior. Often in the early stages there is
improved eye
contact. The parents report that their children become more
affectionate.
They seek their parents out and want to join in on more family
activities.
Often they show a keener interest in their parents faces. They attempt
to study the face as if trying to figure out how the parent's mouth is
working. They also show more interest in themselves, studying
themselves
in the mirror. They begin to imitate more readily, both gestures and
sounds.
They show more awareness of their environment. They will start to
notice
things they seemed oblivious to before. Some of the sensory
sensitivities
that were especially extreme will start to decline.
If the child is non-verbal, they will start to
babel more. They will
start to make new vocalizations the families have not heard previously.
Parents will notice that the child responds to his/her name more
readily.
They may hear words that they can recognize. If the child is already
verbal
the family will notice more and increasingly complex phrases. The child
will repeat words more readily. They will start to use words
spontaneously
that they previously had only used routly. They also demonstrate that
they
understand more of what is being said by following directions more
readily.
Communication become more purposeful as well as more interactive. There
is more of a two way street.
Parents describe it as an
opening to the world. Not only do their
ears
open, but also their eyes, and the rest of their senses. At the same
time
expressive and receptive language improves, other behavioral changes
are
observed. There is increased purposefulness in their behavior. Children
who never played with a toy seem to better understand how they work.
They
seem to understand how things relate to each other. They are learning
more
readily through imitation and following verbal directions. We also
start
to see the children play symbolically for the first time, such as
making
the toy car go to the store.
Often there is a change in emotional affect. The child
will be
observed
to be less in their own world and more willing to join our world. They
start to develop words that give them more control of their
environment.
This helps to ease the tremendous sense of frustration they have. In
understanding
more of what is being said to them, they can be reasoned with, tending
to become more flexible and better in their handling of transitions. As
the child starts to develop a sense of control and mastery over their
body,
they start to feel more confident and their self esteem improves. With
more internal control they develop a greater sense of autonomy and
independence.
Overall they are happier children.
These are some of the changes we have seen, yet
they vary from child
to child and are therefore difficult to predict. While we cannot
predict exact changes in a particular child, we are able to observe
particular patterns and styles of progress. This is why counseling
throughout the program to help the families maximize the emergence of
new behavior, skills, and communication styles that are emerging in
their child. (Valerie Dejean)
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